CAPTION:
Cosmo Carter (L) carries his daughter Esperanza Carter-Pearl (R), 8, in the backyard of his home in the Portola District of San Francisco, California on May 30, 2017.
Carter, who identifies as a transgender man, became Esperanza's co-parent after being added to her birth certificate. He was born in San Francisco and was raised in the LGBTQ-friendly neighborhood of the Castro.
STORY:
Co-parenting among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) adults has seen an increasing trend since the 1990s. About 63,000 LGBTQ couples were raising children in 2000 and increased to 110,000 by 2012 according to U.S. Census Bureau data.
Celestina Pearl, a queer Chicana, and Cosmo Carter, a transgender man, live within 2 miles of each other splitting time raising their 8-year-old daughter, Esperanza Carter-Pearl, in San Francisco, California. Pearl, the biological mother of Esperanza, is a nurse at St. James Infirmary and provides triage and mobile HIV/STI testing services to current and former sex workers in the city. Carter, the co-parent of Esperanza by birth certificate, grew up in the LGBTQ neighborhood of the Castro District in San Francisco and now works at a deli in the city.
Carter and Pearl held a marriage ceremony in 2001 and separated last year in October when Carter decided to move out. Although separated, Pearl and Carter work together raising their daughter in an LGBTQ-friendly environment between each household.
"I've made a concerted effort that she is surrounded by community," Pearl said. "She is growing up around kids whose parents are also trans."
In 2015, the San Francisco metropolitan area ranked the highest percentage of adults who identified as LGBTQ across the United States according to a report by Gallup, an analytics-driven organization. The report estimated that nearly 9,000 people identifying as LGBTQ live in bay area cities including San Francisco, Oakland and Hayward. Today, an estimated 10 million adults across the nation identify as LGBTQ according to the organization--an increase of nearly 1.75 million more adults than in 2012. Societal acceptance of differing sexual orientations has contributed to the increase and geographic concentration of LGBTQ people in areas such as San Francisco.